I agree with you I feel like my future husband is not on the dating app and if he is, he’s downloading and deleting as frequently as I am that we are missing each other!! I’ve been seeing that statistically. A lot of people in our generation are not getting married at the rate the previous generations were and it frightened me because it makes me believe what if my person is not there. I try not to think that way, but everything you said is exactly how I feel.!!!!! Why does Cupid feel like he is missing me? Hello I am ready?!!????
I just want to start off with saying the comedic cadence in your intro gave my sister and I a good deep down in the belly laugh. So thank you for that.
Secondly, I too have been having the same feelings around the dating apps and feeling like my man is just not there. I’m assuming energetically speaking, he’s just as turned off with the concept of fighting through all the surface level and redundant bs present on dating apps as I am.
I completely agree...I think he's turned off too! So I removed myself and hope our energies meet in the streets lmao. But thank you so much for reading & so happy I could make you laugh lol
Dating apps give me heebie-jeebies. I am unable to get on one and actually use it. I want the old-fashioned, organic, 'I-was-just-living-my-life-and-doing-my-thang-and-he-showed-up' experience. To me, there is nothing authentic about dating apps. It's like going swimming in shark-infested waters. I'm not knocking anybody that's doing it. I'm speaking squarely for myself. I'm with you. My man is too dope and busy to be swiping left and right on an app.
ugh i feel soo seen in this post! i completely agree! i’ve never been fond of dating apps - not judging anyone who is. but like you said, my ideal man is not fishing for a woman.. he’s letting it happen naturally. to me, dating apps like porn lol i know that’s a stretch but not really.. something about it just seems superficial or like everyone is lusting, hunting for a mate. 😂
Although I met my hubby online in the 90s, I agree. Back then Catfishing required faxing in a picture of someone else, and email was the standard form of communication. I feel nowaday minimal effort is required and that makes me sad. I'm glad you are looking for depth....you deserve that in a partner.
F📕 doesn’t put the good looking people behind a paywall lol, it’s the most tolerable out of all them! It’s been about 6 months I’ve been in an exclusive relationship with my bf from that app!
The apps are just dopamine rushes for men. That’s why there is no effort, even if they pay. You’re not wrong for wanting what you want! I’m trying to mix up the places I can be “found” to better my chances. Prayers up for us both! lol😅
Well I feel like dating apps are a waist of time because they can lead you to a dead end. Also, man are saying the same old things all the time which is like a broken record.... Like that annoys me as well sometimes I say in my mind be different get to the point why you are interested in me??? FYI I don't wait on a guy to ask me out I like to shoot my shot😉. If a guy seems like he is worth my time. I met guys by just going to mixers, company events or etc I am sticking to the old fashion way... Because apps are not for me it's not that I didn't try It never really gave me results.
Furthermore, your one true love is around the corner and will come find you instead of you seeking him.. 😎🥰
I agree with you I feel like my future husband is not on the dating app and if he is, he’s downloading and deleting as frequently as I am that we are missing each other!! I’ve been seeing that statistically. A lot of people in our generation are not getting married at the rate the previous generations were and it frightened me because it makes me believe what if my person is not there. I try not to think that way, but everything you said is exactly how I feel.!!!!! Why does Cupid feel like he is missing me? Hello I am ready?!!????
I think partners are out there, but in the house. That is my current theory on everything.
I agree…same.
I think that's exactly what happens...my man is hopping on and off the dating apps and we're missing each other!
I just want to start off with saying the comedic cadence in your intro gave my sister and I a good deep down in the belly laugh. So thank you for that.
Secondly, I too have been having the same feelings around the dating apps and feeling like my man is just not there. I’m assuming energetically speaking, he’s just as turned off with the concept of fighting through all the surface level and redundant bs present on dating apps as I am.
I completely agree...I think he's turned off too! So I removed myself and hope our energies meet in the streets lmao. But thank you so much for reading & so happy I could make you laugh lol
After having Hinge for a month and deleting it yesterday this was the perfect euology for what I hope is the end of my dating app journey lmao
good job sister lol ahhaa take a break
The love jones bookend 🤏🏾
you peeped :)
Dating apps give me heebie-jeebies. I am unable to get on one and actually use it. I want the old-fashioned, organic, 'I-was-just-living-my-life-and-doing-my-thang-and-he-showed-up' experience. To me, there is nothing authentic about dating apps. It's like going swimming in shark-infested waters. I'm not knocking anybody that's doing it. I'm speaking squarely for myself. I'm with you. My man is too dope and busy to be swiping left and right on an app.
We see each othaaa. I completely agree.
Redownloading hinge as a real nigga lmao
Definitely enjoy IRL connections more than those on dating apps! It feels not genuine lol. Prayers that your helpmate is coming soon!!!👏🏾
thank youuuuu
ugh i feel soo seen in this post! i completely agree! i’ve never been fond of dating apps - not judging anyone who is. but like you said, my ideal man is not fishing for a woman.. he’s letting it happen naturally. to me, dating apps like porn lol i know that’s a stretch but not really.. something about it just seems superficial or like everyone is lusting, hunting for a mate. 😂
No that's a super great comparison honestly! Lol thanks so much for reading.
The title got me quick because yes.
like…nope lol
❤️ my thoughts EXACTLY
Although I met my hubby online in the 90s, I agree. Back then Catfishing required faxing in a picture of someone else, and email was the standard form of communication. I feel nowaday minimal effort is required and that makes me sad. I'm glad you are looking for depth....you deserve that in a partner.
wow I bet meeting someone online in the 90s was so different but yet, so cool during that time. Thank you so much for reading.
This is so funny and real. I get you😂❤️
lol thanks for reading!
F📕 doesn’t put the good looking people behind a paywall lol, it’s the most tolerable out of all them! It’s been about 6 months I’ve been in an exclusive relationship with my bf from that app!
Omg love that for you! I agree they don’t! The best looking ppl are on there actually
The apps are just dopamine rushes for men. That’s why there is no effort, even if they pay. You’re not wrong for wanting what you want! I’m trying to mix up the places I can be “found” to better my chances. Prayers up for us both! lol😅
No I agree, I always try to place myself in nicer places to be found. I think that's the only thing we can really do :/ lmao, prayers to us!!
Well I feel like dating apps are a waist of time because they can lead you to a dead end. Also, man are saying the same old things all the time which is like a broken record.... Like that annoys me as well sometimes I say in my mind be different get to the point why you are interested in me??? FYI I don't wait on a guy to ask me out I like to shoot my shot😉. If a guy seems like he is worth my time. I met guys by just going to mixers, company events or etc I am sticking to the old fashion way... Because apps are not for me it's not that I didn't try It never really gave me results.
Furthermore, your one true love is around the corner and will come find you instead of you seeking him.. 😎🥰
Ok Big Jess shooting the shot!
one of my favs. 💜💜