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Big Jess's avatar

Faith, Praying and Positive movement helps align your desires in life. I've noticed the more you take one step at a time things come together not when you want. But when God says you are ready for that milestone.

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India Monee''s avatar

OOOO a word

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Dee Blanca's avatar

Love this! Girl, I’m in a constant state of not actually knowing what I want. Recently I have been making the attempt to sit in my feelings and listening to my heart. This really has helped me clear out the backlog of thoughts in my mind and truly get to understand what I want. I kinda do know what I want after all šŸ˜‚ Here from TikTok- @deeblanca šŸ¤

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India Monee''s avatar

Omggg hey from TikTok! I'm glad it was relatable because I swear sometimes I'm feeling crazy and it feels like I'm the only one. Thanks for taking the time to read!

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kamil's avatar

chile, this was good and made me lol out a few times as well. also, I do really resonate with what you said about wanting to be coupled, but also being traumatized from dating, because same.I've spent many moons single at this point, and I find myself now more often seeing folks outside and being like "damn, I want that." I'm also realizing the work I've done by myself and for myself is constantly being put to test when I'm faced with someone I have a romantic interest in. Whew, chile. so much to thank on. thank you for this India!

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India Monee''s avatar

It's so deep! It's like I do the work, then I get flashbacks, then I'm content, then I'm yearning, and it repeats lol. Thank you so much for reading and getting me!

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kamil's avatar

Heavy on the ā€œyouuu are not alone!ā€

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Eboni the Side Quest Princess's avatar

It definitely be like that girl šŸ«‚ā¤ļø one day at a time!

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India Monee''s avatar

one day at a time...thank you for reading!

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Eboni the Side Quest Princess's avatar

you’re welcome! Thank you for writing

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enjoyiana nururdin, m.a.'s avatar

thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this! i enjoyed reading and can totally relate. took the words right outta my soul

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India Monee''s avatar

Wow thanks for commenting and reading! I’m glad it was relatable

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