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Jade Osei's avatar

“Leave your feelings on the pillow!” Facts!

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India Monee''s avatar

Period !

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lex's avatar

exploring is so worth it. how else are we supposed to figure out what we like and what we don't like?

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India Monee''s avatar

precisely! It’s so important

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DaTionna Kerr's avatar

Honestly, I feel like her, putting her career to the side is on. She now has all the money and resources to still start her business and she has not, why? She needs to go cry to her husband and not the podcast.

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India Monee''s avatar

What's crazy is in the interview, I learned she literally owns restaurants, she was a whole chef and had a cooking show! She had adventures, so I really don't understand why she can't explore the things she wants with all that she has...but hey what do I know. I do be wondering what Steph thinks.

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MIKA Robinson's avatar

"Be a fun hoe, not a sad hoe." was such a bar. I think a hoe phase has its place and I'm currently deciding if it time to launch my own lmao. But as you said, results may vary.

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India Monee''s avatar

Thank youuu. And heyyy sometimes it's needed! Lol I thought I was kicking one off recently and realized my patience too low

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Sierra 🎀's avatar

“You have to be confident. Be a fun hoe, not a sad hoe” mhmmm 🤏🏾🤭 you’re right! That’s facts!

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India Monee''s avatar

just trying to let the girlies know! lol thanks for reading!

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jemia's avatar

i got one more "rule" i always tell my friends about having a hoe phase.

spread that shit out! meaning, all your hoes should not be in the same vicinity. and if im very honest, you should actually hoe in other cities than your own. hoe on vacation, have a hoe in city that is 2-3 hours away by car, hoe during homecoming (with a local), but hoe'ing in your current city or hometown tends to not work out in the best way. we are all waaaaayyy to connected now a days.

love this piece.

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India Monee''s avatar

oooooo sisterrrr you said a word!! This is so right! Deff have to spread it out because everybody do be knowing everybody!

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jemia's avatar

knowing everybody! i don't need people to know who i've hoe'd with. that's my business ... you know!

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bandz's avatar

I LOST IT AT “….especially a child” LMAO

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India Monee''s avatar

Listennnn lmao I'm still thinking about that one. LOL It feels like a teenage pregnancy still.

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