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Ohh my gosh I have so much to say lol. But all in all IT AINT TRICKIN IF YOU GOT IT! You might be his outlet to getting to know new things outside of his culture. I know it can be a weight to teach someone about you and your culture but it MIGHT be well worth it. Espciallly if he’s open to it. I love his persistence and he seems to be a gentleman. Don’t let your comfort zone keep you from expirencing. He may grow on you. Don’t stop … for now 🤍

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That's deff a different point of view I didn't think about...you're right, that I might be teaching him! Thanks for reading.

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You’re welcome! I love these blogs! 👏🏾💕

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1st of all, you’re toooo fine! 2nd, I love the writing, I felt like this was a voicenote lol I was thoroughly invested. Most importantly, I love that you experienced treatment you deserve! And I co-sign and believe it’s very much out there from a man with melanin and lips😌 from what you wrote I feel like it’s less about race and more about not clicking with a person coupled with not being physically attracted. It can almost be insult to injury—like you don’t joke and you’re not fine!?

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Exactlyyyy. You get me! I need me a laugh or 5!! Thank you so much for reading 🥹🫶🏾

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“This is when I realized I am too fine for a white man” took me out!!!!!!

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AHAHAH listen

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Well I would say that it's great you're putting yourself out there to meet potential partners. And it seems like the date was good but not spectacular to your standards. With that being said I would caution you that if he can't give you those wow factors your looking for. Having anymore dates will be a waste of your time. Everyone deserves the best dates that give you butterflies and gives you a hope that person maybe right for you. Thank you for being transparent in your article and internally reviewing your date with Dill..😆😆😆

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ooOooooO some good advice! Thanks girl!

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It’s the not bopping to the 90s R&B for me .. I’m out lol but this was such a gooood read! I’m super torn too because I love the energy from him, but if the vibes are not there, then it’s not going to work. Sorry Dill! lol

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You get meee because your R&B playlist is a 10/10!!! Like babes if we can't vibe over music idk what to tell you!! Thank you so much for reading!

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I loved your writing style here! It kept me very engaged and intrigued the entire time! “Somebody’s son that has lips” Is hilarious 😂 I do agree with your homeboy that you said yes to the restaurant vs the man because you automatically had doubts about him (probably because you knew you weren’t attracted to him) but decided to go for the experience. But you deserve all the wining and dining from someone you instantly click with! Nonetheless, looking forward to reading more! Cheers to happy dating 🩷

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LOL! When he said that, I said wow...you're right. Thank you so much for reading!

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First of all, “Dill Pickle” is hilarious 😂😂 && also I feel like you know you deserve to get treated to the finer things but from someone you’re attracted to, and yes both can exist. Seems like a nice guy but not your type so its no need to force it lol

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Period! I need both! Lol thanks for reading!!

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